SOCIOLOGY OF THE FAMILY

Fall 2006

SOC-253-01

Westminster College

 

Mark Rubinfeld

Foster 308

Office phone: 832-2430; Home phone: 364-1228

E-mail: mrubinfeld@westminstercollege.edu  

Website: http://people.westminstercollege.edu/faculty/mrubinfeld

Office Hours: Mon., Tues., Wed., and Thurs. 4:00-5:15, and by appointment.

 

Course Description:

 

This course explores the modern American family—examining the traditions, roles, functions, representations, changes, and controversies surrounding the social institution of the family.

 

Required Books (Available at College Bookstore):

 

Cherlin, Andrew J. Public and Private Families: An Introduction. Fourth Edition. 2005. New York: McGraw-Hill.

 

Required Articles (On Reserve):

 

Bartholet, Elizabeth. “Blood Knots: Adoption, Reproduction, and the Politics of Family.”

Coltrane, Scott and Michele Adams. “Men’s Family Work: Child-Centered Fathering and the Sharing of Domestic Labor.”

Coontz, Stephanie. “The New Fragility of Marriage.”

Coontz, Stephanie. “What We Really Miss about the 1950s.”

Edin, Kathryn. “Few Good Men: Why Poor Mothers Stay Single.”

Egan, Jennifer. “Love in the Time of No Time.”

Galston, William A. “Divorce American Style.”

Hays, Sharon. “The Mommy Wars: Ambivalence, Ideological Work, and the Cultural Contradictions of Motherhood.”

Lewin, Tamar. “When Richer Weds Poorer, Money Isn’t the Only Difference.”

Pipher, Mary. “Then and Now.”

Popenoe, David. “A World without Fathers.”

Rodgers, Sussner and Charles Rodgers. “Business and the Facts of Family Life.”

Rubinfeld, Mark. “The Matter of the Children.”

Silverstein, Louise B. and Carl F. Auerbach. “Deconstructing the Essential Father.”

Skolnick, Arlene. “The Life Course Revolution.”

Talbot, Margaret. “Love American Style.”

Wilkerson, Isabel. “Angela Whitiker’s Climb.”

 

Course Objectives:

 

  • To understand the family from a historical, social, and interpersonal perspective.
  • To examine the major issues, problems, and controversies surrounding the family
  • To evaluate cultural attitudes and social policies affecting the family.
  • To explore traditional and changing gender roles within the family.
  • To consider class, ethnic, racial, and lifestyle variations between families.
  • To analyze the effects of single parenting, cohabitation, divorce, and remarriage on family members.
  • To learn about domestic violence and family dysfunction.
  • To improve critical thinking, writing, speaking, and problem-solving skills.

 Procedures and Course Outline:

 

This course, focusing on the modern American family, utilizes a variety of learning tools including readings, lectures, videotapes, class discussions, field trips, group exercises, and oral presentations. Weekly readings and assignments appear on the attached course outline.

Assignments and Grading:

 

Final grades will be based on a mid-term (30% of the final grade), a final examination (30% of the final grade), two papers (each worth 15% of the final grade), and a group presentation (10% of the final grade). You must complete all of the course requirements in order to pass this course. Final grades will be based on the percentage of total points earned: A  (93-100), A- (90-92), B+ (87-89), B (83-86), B- (80-82), C+ (77-79), C (73-76), C- (70-72), D+ (67-69), D (63-66), D- (60-62), and F (below 60).

            Exams: The exams include multiple choice, true-false, and short essay questions that cover information from the readings, lectures, class discussions, and group presentations.

            Two papers: You will have at least two weeks to complete the two papers, each four-to-six pages long (double spaced), related to class readings, lectures, and discussions. Late papers will be accepted up to one week late with a ten-point penalty; after one week, no late papers will be accepted. (Note: an absence on the day a paper is due is not a valid reason for missing a deadline. It is your responsibility to find someone to deliver the paper for you, or to fax or e-mail a copy of the paper to me on the due date).

            Group Presentation: You will be placed into groups with each group giving a thirty minute presentation on various aspects of the American family.

 

Class Participation and Attendance:

 

Class attendance, discussion, and participation are significant components of the classroom experience. As such, any student who misses eight or more classes will not be able to get a grade higher than a “B” for this class; any student who misses twelve or more classes will not be able to get a grade higher than a “C” for this class. Although there is no formal attendance policy for students who miss seven or less classes, do know that a significant number of questions on the midterm and final will focus on class lectures and discussions. Furthermore, since I will be weighing class participation in borderline grading situations, students who regularly attend class and frequently participate in classroom discussions will have an “edge” in achieving a higher, final grade. Finally, I reserve the option of giving quizzes, assigning additional homework, or emending this syllabus as the need arises.

 

Student-Student and Student-Faculty Relationship:

 

All students must be respectful of other students. This means no talking while other students are talking or trying to listen. It also means showing up to class on time so as not to disrupt the class with late arrivals. Once class begins, no chatting, no reading outside materials, and no sleeping in class. If you must eat, make sure it is a “quiet” food. Also, turn off your cell phones. In other words, act appropriately for a college class; if your actions create a distraction, you will be asked to leave. In accordance with college policies, any acts of cheating or plagiarism will be penalized to the severest extent. My office hours are listed at the beginning of this syllabus. At any time, feel free to meet with me to discuss any matters relevant to the course. If you cannot meet with me during my scheduled office hours, I am also available by appointment. It is especially important for you to see me early if you are having difficulties with the course. Do not wait till the end of the semester when there is little I can do to help. Finally, feel free to meet with me if you would like to learn more about sociology, including pursuing it as a major or minor, or incorporating its application into papers and assignments from your other classes.

 

Group Presentations

 

Due to time constraints, there are various aspects of the family that we will not be able to fully cover in the course. In order to provide you with an overview of some of these aspects, we will use group presentations that will: 1) allow us to cover more material than we could normally cover through lectures and readings, 2) provide you with a greater variety of viewpoints, and 3) afford you the opportunity to experience working on a group project that includes public speaking.

            Each group will have 30 minutes (plus an additional ten minutes for questions and answers) to report on their topic, with topics to be assigned halfway through the semester. One week prior to the presentation, each group must submit an outline of its presentation and what specific topic each individual member will be covering.

            Each member of the group must participate in the oral presentation. All students in the group will receive the same grade unless the group reports to me that one or more of its members failed to participate, or work cooperatively, with the bulk of the group members. It has been my experience that the best presentations are those that involve the following:

 

Solid preparation: All group members should be equally prepared for the presentation. This usually necessitates a clear delineation of member roles in preparing for and conducting the presentation. The format of the presentation is up to each group. There are only two limitations: that the presentation lasts no more than 30 minutes, and that it fully covers the assigned topic.

            Class activity and/or handouts: Having the class take an active role in at least part of the presentation (through handouts, posters, transparencies, games, videos, or any other audio or visual aids that the group deems useful) often results in better class attention and discussions. In presenting your material, strive to be informative, engaging, and creative. Try to think of different ways of involving the class into your presentation so they stay interested.

            Introduction of the panel members: You can make the group presentation more personal by introducing yourselves at the beginning of your presentation. This helps to lessen the “intimidation factor”, and to create an atmosphere more conducive to audience participation. Furthermore, try not to forget to establish eye contact with members of the audience, and to smile from time to time. If you can, also try to avoid reading from your notes or cue cards.

            Careful time budgeting: Use your time wisely. Thirty minutes is not very long for a presentation. Although you should be prepared to use the entire 30 minutes for your presentation, this does not mean that you should try to cram as much information or activities as possible into your presentation. It is better to cover two well-developed points about a topic than to zip through ten confused and disjointed points.

            Expectations about audience participation: Of course you will do the best you can to encourage participation and discussion from the class. However, the burden of responsibility is not entirely yours. The rest of the class is also responsible for ensuring that the group presentations are an engaging and rewarding experience for everyone involved. This entails: 1) listening attentively (showing respect for speakers), 2) taking part in the discussion and/or activity, and 3) preparing at least one question or comment to share with the class during the question and answer period.

            Grading: As previously mentioned, each member in the group receives the same grade. The grades for the group presentations will be based on the following criteria: 1) substance or content, 2) creativity and resourcefulness (use of materials, exercises, activities, etc.), and 3) form and style (articulation, length, organization, preparedness, etc.). If the group is having a problem with one or more of its members (e.g., not coming to preparatory meetings, showing no interest in the project, not doing his or her share of the work), first, try to work it out with the member or members. If the problem persists, however, let me know about it as early as possible. If the group consensus is that one or more members of the group are not participating to the satisfaction of the group, the non-participating member or members will not get credit for the assignment, and receive a zero for their group presentation grade. This ensures: a) that the group is not penalized for the lack of preparation of any of its members, and b) that no group member or members receive credit for the work that others are doing.

            Having fun: Education does not always have to be a chore. In addition to learning new material, this is an opportunity to develop public speaking skills, gain self-confidence, make new friends, and have some fun. This is your time to teach and to reach. Go for it!

 

 

COURSE OUTLINE

 

 

Week

Topic

Assignments

1

Introduction to Sociology of The Family

No Assignments

2

Definitions and Perspectives (and) The History of the Family
Tuesday August 29

“The Life Course Revolution,” Arlene Skolnick

Thursday August 31

Public and Private Families, Chapter 2, pp. 33-73.

3

The History of the Family (and) Gender and Families

Tuesday September 5

“What We Really Miss About the 1950s,” Stephanie Coontz

Thursday September 7

Public and Private Families, Chapter 3, pp. 77-107

4

Gender and Families (and) Social Class and Families

Tuesday September 12

“The Mommy Wars: Ambivalence, Ideological Work, and the Cultural Contradictions of Motherhood,” Sharon Hayes

Thursday September 14

Public and Private Families, Chapter 4, pp. 109-140

5

Social Class and Families

Tuesday September 19

“When Richer Weds Poorer, Money Isn’t the Only Difference,” Tamar Lewin

---and---

“Few Good Men: Why Poor Mothers Stay Single,” Kathryn Edin

6

Social Class and Families (and) Race, Ethnicity, and Families (and) Sexuality and Love

Tuesday September 26

“Angela Whitiker’s Climb,” Isabel Wilkerson

Thursday September 28

Public and Private Families, Chapter 6, pp. 181-218

Thursday September 28

*** FIRST PAPER DUE***

7

Sexuality and Love (and) Cohabitation and Marriage

Tuesday October 3

“Then and Now,” Mary Pipher

---and---

“Love in the Time of No Time,” Jennifer Egan

Thursday October 5

Public and Private Families, Chapter 7, pp. 221-258

8

Cohabitation and Marriage (and) Midterm Review (and) Midterm Exam

Tuesday October 10

“The New Fragility of Marriage,” Stephanie Coontz

Thursday October 12

***MIDTERM EXAM***

(Covering Chapters 2, 3, 4, 6, 7 in Cherlin, and all of the readings in the Reader through Coontz)

9

Work and Families

Tuesday October 17

Public and Private Families, Chapter 8, pp. 263-289

---and---

“Men’s Family Work: Child-Centered Fathering and the Sharing of Domestic Labor,” Scott Coltrane and Michel Adams

Thursday October 19

“Business and the Facts of Family Life,” Sussner Rodgers and Charles Rodgers

Thursday October 19

***Top Three Choices for Group Presentations***

10

Children and Parents

Tuesday October 24

Public and Private Families, Chapter 9, pp. 293-328

Thursday October 26

“Blood Knots: Adoption, Reproduction, and the Politics of Family,” Elizabeth Bartholet

---and---

“A World Without Fathers,” David Popenoe

---and---

“Deconstructing the Essential Father,” Louise B. Silverstein and Carl F. Auerbach

11

Domestic Violence

Tuesday October 31

Public and Private Families, Chapter 11, pp. 367-399

12

Divorce

Tuesday November 7

Public and Private Families, Chapter 12, pp. 401-433

Thursday November 9

“Divorce American Style,” William A. Galston

---and---

“Love American Style,” Margaret Talbot

---and---

“The Matter of the Children,” Mark Rubinfeld

13

Divorce (and) Group Presentation Preparations (and) Class Dinner

Thursday November 16

***Class Dinner***

14

Group Presentations

Tuesday November 21

Group Presentations

Thursday December 23

HAPPY THANKSGIVING

15

Group Presentations (and) Last Class, Final Exam Review, Class Wrap-up, and Student Course Evaluations

Tuesday November 28
Group Presentations
Thursday November 30

Group Presentations

---and---

Group Presentation Grades and Feedback, Final Exam Review, and Class Wrap-up

***FINAL EXAM*** (covering chapters 8, 9, 11, 12, 15, and all of the readings in the Reader from the second half of the course) is scheduled for Thursday December 7 from 6:00-7:50 p.m.)